Are You In a Healthy Love Relationship?
Does Your Love Relationship Bring Out the Best in You?
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Hopefully you are in a healthy relationship. Hopefully you and your partner respect each other and treat each other with kindness. Without respect and kindness, you will feel discounted and lonely, because respect and kindness means you are valued for |
Who are you? Do you respect yourself? Do you know you are unconditionally brilliant, special, unique, creative, talented, loving, lovable, capable, witty and wise?
If you don't love and accept yourself, you will not respect yourself either or treat yourself with kindness. And you will not be able to truly love and accept your partner. Instead, you will always be looking for love from someone else to validate you. And when you don't get the love and acceptance you need, you will get angry and scared, and mistreat your partner and yourself.
You Cannot Give Someone Love and Acceptance if You Do Not Love and Accept Yourself.
If you want to create a healthy relationship with your partner or with a partner you are hoping to meet, work on learning how to love yourself. A healthy relationship requires mutual trust and respect. Trust is based on your honesty and it is judged positively by others when they observe you consistently doing what you say you are going to do.
A healthy relationship is fun, romantic, exciting, intimate and supportive of each other's needs. When you take responsibility for meeting your own needs, and are supportive of your partner meeting his or her needs, you create a powerful bond with each other. You ensure success in love and life.
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You are in an unhealthy relationship if you or your partner are mean, judgemental, critical, controlling, or abusive in any way. Please get help right away if you are suffering in an unhealthy relationship. It is time to love and respect yourself and find a new partner if treating you with respect is not possible with the partner you are currently with. |
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